There are 3 groups doing virtual wind instruments that are way ahead of sample libraries but take a bit of finesse to control (they're that realistic):
The most realistic are probably the horns and saxes from Samplemodeling
There are very good single strings (Violin, Cello, etc) and a bunch of woodwinds of similar expressiveness but varying degrees of authenticity from Audio Modeling who split their SWAM engine instruments off from the above fairly recently.
The most affordable partially-modeled winds (you can still use a breath controller, for example) come from Wallander Instruments whose WIVI Band set gets you a decent starter set for $130.
Most other strings are currently better from sample libraries, such as the guitar stuff from NI mentioned above.
LASS from Audiobro is still the most satisfying of the string ensembles I've used, but it'll cost ya.
I suppose it's worth noting that if you're on a Mac, Logic X ships with a surprisingly comprehensive set of fairly decent samples and synth capability. Some (drums, organs, guitar amp modeling and effects) are very good, others less so..but you get a lot more than you ever used to for a few hundred bucks, along with very good effects, notation and recording capability. Certainly a good way to get started.